Intimidating woman meaning
Have you ever been faced with that impossible question from a friend?She looks you in the eye and asks for the truth—for one moment of brutal honesty: “Why doesn’t he like me? I don’t know about you, but when I tell my friends they are intimidating, what I mean is that they are just too awesome for the guy.Here’s what they told me: Abby: "I am very independent, and I love autonomy.[My girlfriends] see this in a positive light..of them wish they had more of a backbone and ask for my advice on how to emulate my demeanor." Katie: "I'm very direct.
In fact, the archetype of guys being scared out of their minds of cool, powerful, self-assured women is basically the oldest one of all time– just ask Beyonce or Serena Williams–so, if you’ve ever been called intimidating, you’re in good company. Guys say “intimidating” like it’s a compliment, but the way it’s presented usually feels like a sort of cop-out, like a preemptive “It’s not me, it’s you” that doesn’t actually mean anything.Why would he want to invite someone in who minimizes him and doesn’t appreciate him.Other than true masochists, guys who have choice don’t want this.To deal, try extending the conversations you do have a little each time, or taking some sort of action yourself to show that you're interested.It doesn't have to be anything big, just a little sign that you like hanging out with them and wouldn't mind doing it some more.